Marriage Following Infidelity

No person ever declared it would be easy repairing your relationship after an affair. You still cherish your mate and have no wish to get a divorce. Your mate feels the same. They did wrong yet want to do everything possible to fix the damages. Which is admirable but you cannot help but wonder exactly […]

Signs of an Unfaithful Wife

Cheating may in fact be one of those things better relegated to the phrase “… different strokes for different people” because for some, cheating is a deal breaker, but for some others, it is just one more thing to “roll with”. Regardless, any man worth his salt is at least a teensy bit possessive and […]

How Can I Restore The Love After I Cheated On My Spouse?

I sometimes hear from people who would give anything to turn back time so that they could take back their affair. They deeply regret their actions. But unfortunately, there is no way to take it back. And because of this, their actions can hurt their spouse so deeply that their spouse can feel as if […]


Why Can’t Men Remember Anniversaries?

Do you have trouble remembering special dates such as birthdays, holidays, wedding anniversaries? To find out why, let’s look at which dates we can remember, and which we can’t: Birthdays Every one can remember their own date of birth even though most of us have trouble remembering the actual day of our birth! So why […]

Low-Budget Romantic Getaway Ideas

When it comes to romance, people tend to think that you require a lot of money so as to completely enjoy the company of your partner. You should be aware that you do not need to spend a large sum of money just so you can have that special time. There are several ideas for […]

Boomers Dating

Too Old For A Boyfriend?

How old is too old to have a boyfriend? I am talking about a 60 year-old woman who walks around and tells everyone about her 70 year-old “boyfriend.” Doesn’t she really have a man-friend? After high school, isn’t it time for women to stop calling their significant others “boyfriends?” I’m sorry, but a 43 year-old […]

Reasons Why Women Over 50 Are Dating Online

1. Does he have some “excess baggage” or a whole freight car? One of the best reasons why women over 50 date online is because they can find out who and what they are dealing with before ever going out on a date. To begin with dating online is a great way to cut through […]


I Expected A Proposal But Didn’t Get It

I often hear from women who were expecting or hoping for a proposal that never came. Needless to say, many are quite disappointed, if not heartbroken. It’s very easy to let your mind wander and start planning all of the details from the proposal, to the ring, to the wedding, and then on to married […]

When He Won’t Commit: Walk Away

Not all women, but many women think that if they just continue to show a man how much they love him, or ‘just hang’ in there’ he will eventually make a commitment to them. This is not the case at all. I know this first hand, because I recently had to leave a two-year relationship […]


No Communication, No Relationship!

Effective communication in ordinary circumstances is not always achievable. Effective communication during times of conflict is all the more difficult. But how to create and maintain positive and clear communication when one’s natural instinct is to fight or flight? For some couples the only time they feel they are communicating is during conflict. But is […]

Why Do I Say Yes When I Mean No

The answer to this question is buried deep in our personality type. For people who recognize a continual pattern of saying yes when they mean no, there is really only one answer. Having worked in clinical settings for over twenty years and encountered every personality type and personality disorder known to man (and women) I […]


Showing Some Tenderness

If your relationship ended due to a fight that brought on a lot of hurt feelings and emotional pain, what can you do to get your ex back? How about trying some simple tenderness to get your lover to come back to you? To overcome those hurt feelings, humiliation or the pain of breaking up […]

Win My Ex Back Using Reverse Psychology

How do I win my ex back using reverse psychology? What exactly is reverse psychology? First of all, reverse psychology is a clever game or trick that can help you win back your ex. What you need to do is the exact opposite of what is expected of you. Trying to “win my ex back” […]


Why Women Leave Men

If you were wondering if your girlfriend or wife is thinking about leaving you, it might benefit you to know the reason why women leave men. While no two people are exactly alike there are some fairly universal things that will drive a woman to leave a man. Of course, there are times both parties […]

Through His Tummy, To His Heart!

Generally, we are obsessed with filling our closets full of designer clothes and shoes to impress that someone special. We spend hundreds of dollars on our clothes, hair, nails, waxing, etc., just to catch their eye. We obsess so hard on all the superficial things about ourselves that we often find ourselves clueless as to […]

Cross Cultural

Basic Guidelines for Interracial Dating

America has a long history of rocky interracial relations when it comes to economic, political, and social issues. Race remains an uncomfortable conversation for many Americans and avoidance continues to prolong a needed national discussion on the matter. The fundamental problem with interracial relationships in America is that it runs counter to the American historical […]

Make Your Interracial Relationship Work

As many more people migrate from one place to another, the new generation of children are now more open to dating expats. Many are accustomed to multicultural ways and traditions making them more accepting of other people’s religions and cultures. Yet, even if this is the case, the older generation (mostly the patriarchs and matriarchs […]


After 40 Dating Advice

Singles dating after 40 years old will sometimes spend a lot of their social time emailing, vetting and screening their prospective dates before they ever actually risk meeting them face to face in person. What is the best internet dating advice for online dating messaging protocol before getting to the first date? How many messages […]

Best Places to Meet Women

So you have been dating for a while now and trying to find the woman of your dreams. If you have gotten your hopes crushed and your dreams sunk just because you have been dating the wrong girl, then you might feel disappointed or feel a sense of despair. You might even say to yourself: […]


Divorce Cost

Divorce costs can greatly vary from case to case. You could end up paying several hundred dollars or thousands depending on a variety of factors. Most of the time, each spouse will be responsible for paying fees, but there are exceptions. Sometimes one spouse will have to pay some or all of the other spouse’s […]

Steps to Protect Your Finances

We all hope it never happens to us. The “D” word. Divorce. It’s a sad fact that lots of marriages end in divorce, and sometimes the relationship is contentious and hostile. If you are facing divorce, protect yourself and your finances with these simple tips: 1. Keep detailed records. The first step is to commit […]


A Daily Commitment to Forgive

The commitment to forgive; once and for all. This eight-worded statement is about the biggest challenge any human being could set themselves. In a world of relationships and transgressions we hurt and are hurt. On a daily basis, within our families, in our workplaces, on the roads, and anywhere we are conscious and interact with […]

How to Stay Romantic After You Are Married?

Marriage is one of the hardest yet most blissful unions you could ever embark on in life. After being married for several years, and after the children come along, it can be hard to rekindle that old flame. Romance can fizzle and going through the daily routine can become more mundane than enjoyable. So how […]

Domestic Violence

Victims of Narcissistic Abuse

When you have a brief encounter with a narcissist, you might not realize that the person has a personality disorder which is typified by being very self-absorbed and lacking in empathy for others. However, when you are a target of narcissistic abuse, and are in a relationship with this person, your every day life becomes […]

The Truth About Domestic Violence

The honest truth about domestic violence is that it is a series of battle skirmishes, middle to great conflicts and wars, and deadly and near suicidal happenings. There is no give and take, and there is no happy medium. Jealously is at its heights, and hurtful rhetoric comes from all sides and tactics. This pair […]


Let Your Secrets Set You Free

Last weekend I met a woman who shared a secret with me. This woman was a Doctor. An accomplished professional. She had it all, including a wonderful husband, supportive family, and friends. We were talking about her claustrophobia when she unloaded the thing she’s been carrying in silence for more than thirty years. She was […]

From Girlfriend to Fiancee

Going from girlfriend to fiancee need not be a painful humbling experience. No women wants to feel she is begging a man to marry her. Wondering if he really wants you as his wife. It doesn’t have to be this way. You can have the man of your dreams without being manipulative or engaging in […]


Erotic Romance

Right now, the bestselling book on Amazon is Fifty Shades of Grey. This has created an explosion of other similar selling titles, and suddenly more and more women are reading erotic romance novels. But now many people are wondering if reading these stories is good for your relationship? Let’s get straight to the facts then […]

Make Her Feel Special

Men and women will always be different. We like that they’re wired and tick differently. At times though, it can make our heads spin. But we need to make her feel special and appreciated. Men think problems out; most of the time on their own. Women like to talk it out; with you or a […]


Better a Warm Heart Than a Cool Spirit

When my daughter was a teenager, she once said, “You don’t have any normal friends, do you”? She was right but she was also a kid. You learn who real friends are quickly. Personality quirks become less important over time. Even as a kid, I was always the defender of the underdog. Someone once told […]

Different Types of Friends

Go through your repertoire of friends. Take a quick look. Now describe a few. When asked to do this, more often than not you’ll describe them in how they are as a friend to you and classify them according to how they respond to you as an individual. If I take a look at my […]


How to Be Charming

When you think of charming individuals that you know, or charming acquaintances you’ve met, what do they seem to have that others don’t? Likely they were able to make you feel at “home”, interesting and feeling as though you had a sense of importance. This is something that each of us has instilled in us, […]

Getting Comfortable on Your Own

There are a lot of people who are afraid to be alone. In some cases this may be because they have a phobia that leads to panic attacks when they are by themselves. In most cases however it is because they have never gotten used to being alone because they have never had to spend […]


Luxury Wedding Invitations

A wedding can be an occasion that many people most look forward to in their lives. Many little girls play out these dreams and then finally their dream comes true and the day arrives where they have to search for their wedding invitations that they are to send far and wide. Understandably they will want […]

Wedding Photography

So you’ve attended the hen do (most of it a blur), you’ve managed to buy a halfway-decent present from the hugely long wedding list – and do so on time, a feat of organisation – and you’ve found the slightly twee country church where the ceremony is taking place. You’ve squeezed into your ‘good’ dress, […]